Saturday, August 23, 2014

Family

I think the idea of family has some pretty vital and important roots. Deep within the shielded mystery of life resides the second most powerful and intriguing secret—gender. There is male and female; two different, marvelous, and complementary entities. When we say: It's a boy! It's a girl! We speak of that which we know to be true, but do not fully understand. None of us do, though some may think they do. The compelling urge to create in order to sustain our own life envelops the desire to procreate in order to sustain our kind. We live to create, to be fruitful and multiply and replenish the earth with others who will do the same. There is a desire to have joy in our posterity. It has always been so. (Exceptions and aberrations are just that and they do not change the rule.) The entire process is, in a sense, a fragile and delicate desire that is subject to significant frustration and pain as well as euphoric fulfillment. The divine rules for engaging male and female for their intended purposes are real. They should not be ignored; the consequences for their violation can lead to great heartache. In contrast, however, there is no greater joy than that which comes from careful, consistent compliance to this urge for union between male and female in the the human family.

I believe family is an eternal as well as a temporal social structure and it fulfills its true purposes both on earth and in heaven. Life is eternal and so is family. In the ultimate sense, everything about life seems to be about family. Things on earth are patterned after things in heaven. It's not complicated. Yet ironically, ever since Adam and Eve, the earthly family has been in jeopardy. In my world view, everyone is or can be part of three basic families: (1) a pre-earth family—where Heavenly Parents provided us with a spirit body; (2) an earthly family—where earthly parents provided us with a physical body to house our spirit being and personality; (3) the opportunity to join a spiritual family—with Jesus Christ as head of the household and His Church as the mothering agent. This is what Jesus was explaining to Nicodemus when he inquired and was told: “Ye must be born again.” Just as entry into mortality involves water, blood, and spirit, so joining Christ's family requires water, blood, and spirit. (John 3:1-7;Moses 6:58-62; Mosiah 5:6-10; 2 Corinthians 6:17-18; Romans 8:14; Galations 4:4-7.) It is this family that prepares us for the resurrected body that will entitle us to live with and be part of our Heavenly Father's family following this earth life. Next, perhaps I could say something about the tendency we humans have to reject and substitute rather than accept and obey.

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